Guys my first blog is dedicated to those Daredevils who ran from their home. No not IPL team you sillies it’s about those who recently left their home for some one whom they claim their love. I wonder if they know any thing about love or relationships. Why am I writing on this topic? First of all this is the warmest issue, every one was chatting or chanting about this. Second I feel it could be a bigger problem in future and last but not the least this signifies a need of change in our social culture.
FYI I got all this info form one of my relative actually my cousin’s aunty - Aunty Mad. Aunty Mad knew everything about these cases. She knew what they disused before ran away, where they have gone, how they managed, how their parents threatened or bargained them AND what they discussed on their first night (fuck off.. how she knows all this, wondered if she installed a hidden camera in their room or she made herself invisible like Mr. India or she got some supernatural power like Akki had in one of his recent movie),yes live from their bedrooms. I think she must have join RAW or FBI.
Most of these cases are related to Mathura. Before these happenings I had a second thought about Brijwasis. I always thought that they are shy and reserve But now I am feeling the change in scenario. It might be a race for comparing themselves with metro dudes and babes or just an influence of TV culture. Whatever it is, it is not so good for structure and values of our society. Here I could also blame their parents or the Khajj Parishad (I choose this name for our society’s organization) but before that we will just identify those cases and discuss about them in brief because I think this is not the right place to discuss all those details and I am not the right person for discussing them. I leave this job for our aunties as they are best in this job or they may have only this job.
I heard that actual number is around 12 or it is 15 or who knows what the actual is but here I will choose only four of them which are from different families, different education background and have their different reasons to do this daring.
First of them is most controversial or the first who initiated the big game. The BOY is from Mathura’s well known Chobiya Para. I know this guy personally, Kharabi. He has all the qualities for graduating as a road side Romeo. The GIRL, I don’t know her personally (I swear) but I had seen her and know about her family or her also, but not too much. This couple was the initiator for the BhagamBhag game so they deserve a special respect. The boy is uneducated (Bull shit who the hell I am for discussing his education, he got a girl of her choice so better than most of us), Dumb, unemployed (I know he is doing lots of hidden work which god knows only) but strong and daring (which is compulsory for doing his job). Girl must be reading in her graduation, I never seen her roaming too much and chatting with boys (An alarm for all of us. You could not guess who will be next?).
Second one from Mumbai, one of the newly richen family. I believed she is well educated as she belongs to aamchi Mumbai. She might has her own reasons as aunty Mad reported (she never says any thing she always reports) “It is happened because she was failed to got a decent boy in society”.. ooppppps. It might be true or she got some one better outside of our society. If I believe my Mad aunt, the boy is reach enough to took her abroad which is much much better than others who just managed to get some places in India .
Third one is engaged. She is beautiful and ran with another victim of our cast. The poor fellow, god only could help him now. I thought they had some kind of family support also because according to Mad aunt’s reports after ran away from their house they lived with their maternal aunt. This was the fairest as well as ugliest case also. How? I would explain in later part of my blog. For now the dude and the babe both belong to Chautarfa Khaaz. For your knowledge diaries this was happened in Delhi.
Fourth is from Mumbai or Dubai or both, look that’s why Mumbai is best. You could never beat Mumbai in any competition. You may object it by saying that this case is not from the BhagamBhag series. It was pre planned and just an inter cast marriage. But whatever it is it’s an issue which I need to discuss for completing my blog. I have a serious doubt whether we are matured enough for accepting such relationships, whether it was acceptable for both families or they just accepted as they had no other options. I don’t know let’s ask to Aunty SAD. Aunty Sad has the same skill what aunty mad has. Even some times she beat aunty Mad in tadakaa and all. As whenever she informed about victim (I call them by this name and if you are one of them you could understand why I am calling so), if he is a boy he must have relationship with other women and he always has 1 or 2 children. If she is a girl then either she is pregnant or she had abortion couple of times (how lucky these chaps are. They did all this and no one except aunty Sad knows about this crap).
No need to worry about Aunty Mad she is fit and fine but she refused to comment on this case and if I believe on aunty Sad she did this.. no stupid not aunty SAD.. Aunty Mad, because she is relative of our Dubai Hero. Phissssssss.. Poor aunty Mad, I can understand her problem and I believe you could also. Sympathy for her.
Yes so back to the point the boy is from our own Chautarfa Khaaz and gal is Marthi (this is what SAD aunt calls her, according to aunt she has no other sirname). Okay no problem aunty Sadddii, after couple of weeks you may call her with Chautarfa sirname. Boy and girl are well educated even have the best degree of our society (I would love to write another special blog dedicated to this degree), they were in relationship from the very first day when they born (not possible aunty Saddyy). But it could also be, if this is possible in our Hindi films why it is not possible in real life too.
Whatever!! They were in relationship, they are earning well, girl’s family is rich AND she is the only child in her family. My goodness so many qualities, I know what you are thinking why don’t we get such girls? Sorry guys it is all depends on our Karmas. Lets cheers for Mr. Dubai. Good job dude you got the best for you, doesn’t make a difference even if you got her in your thirties.
For now I am stopping my fingers it is too late and I am yawning badly. I need a good sleep for next day’s meeting. I will complete this in my next blog, where I will point out the key reasons behind such things, role of parents and Khajj Parishad and what should be our next step. Just my observations you may add yours also. By then Good Bye.. Jai Jamuna Maiya Ki!!
Wednesday, May 6, 2009
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